We celebrate the instances where everything went right. When things  just came together and we won, succeeded, etc.. The times where  where we beat others to the prize, which are also often times where  there were more losers than winners. And we hold momentos of these  times in our lives. The epitome being a trophy marking ____ in a  sporting event. And [juxtaposingly] we don’t celebrate, comemmorate,  and remember the biggest shapings in our development, where we’ve  failed,       
  Cat-ass-trophy Minimalist and simplistic, using natural and local materials. A bunch of grass, and binding framework, to sit on.